Chandini
La Ray: What is a widow? A woman. A woman who has lost her husband.. is
that HER fault. NO. So she´s still a woman. Who deserves to be loved
and respected for HERSELF. Herself only. And if she wants to be with
another man, well then it is HER right! It´s more than time to end that
cruel nonsense about a woman belonging to a man! Nobody belongs to
another being!!!!! And it is especially nonsense when the man has died!
Sometimes I am asking myself if stupidity or cruelty bigger on this
planet..
Yashanvitha Devavarenya i have told ladies who have lost their caring husbands to continue the same dressing, they have not removed the mangal soothra,broken their bangles, erased their kumkum n hairs on their head.they don't wear plain black or white cloth anymore like in the movie paniyamma.if they r still young n need the support of husband to continue their life, they can marry a man of their choice too.god or goddess has not objected for it. it is their choice to survive or follow their husband's pathway even after his death.but no other family members can force them to re marry or not to marry n snatch their husband's pensions n life supports for her security.
Chandini La Ray :A woman is as worthy as a man and as free as a man. She can do whatever she likes. Why would she need a man? She can learn something she likes and earn her own living. Of course it is nice to have a partner, especially if you have children. One person has to stay at home and look after them when they are small. But a woman has the same right to unfold her skills and follow her interests. Every human being has his/her own pathway.... that´s the truth.. I am so fed up with the disrespectful and evil way women are treated on this planet.. what a shame!
Yashanvitha Devavarenya: that happens even when husband is alive, not only after he dies or separated when alive,but sometimes from the women themselves.women r enemy to women first of all, not only men.
Chandini La Ray: Many things are WRONG in relationships! many many many.. and they are the cause of all the problems we are facing! many women are enemies to other women, but why? because of the fact that they feel the pressure to be likes by MEN! Normally a woman is a sister to another woman.. and that´s how it should be.. heart emoticon
Yashanvitha Devavarenya: even own sisters r sister in laws r jealous n snatch away another sister's rights n rightful belongings out of their greed n ego.
Chandini La Ray: That´s what I am saying.. ask yourself why.. only someone who has not enough love does things like that.. be an example!
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Yashanvitha Devavarenya: despite showering all the love n kindness, they want to do n b so bcos it is their ingerited nature from their genes n they get tempted to b so, no matter what n how good others can b n how muvh love n care is shown.yes, i agree that something is terribly wrong on this planet.that is greed n ego to snatch away other#s right full belomgings.
Chandini La Ray: That´s what I am saying.. ask yourself why.. only someone who has not enough love does things like that.. be an example!
Yashanvitha Devavarenya: despite showering all the love n kindness, they want to do n b so bcos it is their inherited nature from their genes n they get tempted to b so, no matter what n how good others can b n how much love n care is shown.yes, i agree that something is terribly wrong on this planet.that is greed n ego to snatch away other's right full belomgings.
Chandini La Ray: The human being is divine by nature. Greed and ego is planted into its character by society. If we don´t like that we must change society.
Yashanvitha Devavarenya: can't blame on society for everything.society is made up of family of human beings.despite all the support n kindness from the society,they need the freewill n freedom to b evil n do evil.some r possessed by some evil forces, but some others r possessed by themselves.thats why they can't b divine without shifting their focus from serving themselves to serving divine supreme first.unless they take up the reponsibility n have accountability for their own karmic stuffs, they can't b divine.divinity is not just one virtue, it is the all in one dynamic combination n application of most of the virtues demanding confession,repention,honesty,truth,sincerity, loyalty, faith,humbleness.dedication.
Chandini La Ray: Society is YOU and ME and everybody. We all need to start with ourselves, but society is what tells people what to do or not to do by man-made laws.. But in the end, only the divine laws count. The human being itself is a divine creation. And the freewill has not been given to people so that everybody can do what he/she wants!
Yashanvitha Devavarenya: at some places,free will has not been given bcos most of the ppl r evil too in the society where i n you belong to.we might have worked out on ourselves, but others we can't expect them to do the same.they need their free will to b evil n do evil.society n culture of the society is different from the tribes to tribes n locations to locations.if u say humans r divine, then man made laws must b divine too.at some places, they r made to exploit n some places they r made to guard, n some places they r made to tame the souls after certain events or stages.men also bcom widow, woman who marries a widow man is not regarded as giving life to a widow man!!!
Chandini La Ray: humans are divine at the core, not in their behavio if they are not fully realized.
Yashanvitha Devavarenya: At the core, every atom is divine, but they r made up into souls with the combination of thriguna essences, sathvik, rajas, thamasic.so it is called as 'samskaara' earned from one birth to another through their sanchitha n prarabda karma n fruits of the karma or actions.
TSD:I
love these great discussions by you dear Maa ji. This discussion is
very valid. I am truly blessed in heart to have your caring and dear
blessings MaaYashanvitha Devavarenya i have told ladies who have lost their caring husbands to continue the same dressing, they have not removed the mangal soothra,broken their bangles, erased their kumkum n hairs on their head.they don't wear plain black or white cloth anymore like in the movie paniyamma.if they r still young n need the support of husband to continue their life, they can marry a man of their choice too.god or goddess has not objected for it. it is their choice to survive or follow their husband's pathway even after his death.but no other family members can force them to re marry or not to marry n snatch their husband's pensions n life supports for her security.
Chandini La Ray :A woman is as worthy as a man and as free as a man. She can do whatever she likes. Why would she need a man? She can learn something she likes and earn her own living. Of course it is nice to have a partner, especially if you have children. One person has to stay at home and look after them when they are small. But a woman has the same right to unfold her skills and follow her interests. Every human being has his/her own pathway.... that´s the truth.. I am so fed up with the disrespectful and evil way women are treated on this planet.. what a shame!
Yashanvitha Devavarenya: that happens even when husband is alive, not only after he dies or separated when alive,but sometimes from the women themselves.women r enemy to women first of all, not only men.
Chandini La Ray: Many things are WRONG in relationships! many many many.. and they are the cause of all the problems we are facing! many women are enemies to other women, but why? because of the fact that they feel the pressure to be likes by MEN! Normally a woman is a sister to another woman.. and that´s how it should be.. heart emoticon
Yashanvitha Devavarenya: even own sisters r sister in laws r jealous n snatch away another sister's rights n rightful belongings out of their greed n ego.
Chandini La Ray: That´s what I am saying.. ask yourself why.. only someone who has not enough love does things like that.. be an example!
Like · Reply · Just now
Yashanvitha Devavarenya: despite showering all the love n kindness, they want to do n b so bcos it is their ingerited nature from their genes n they get tempted to b so, no matter what n how good others can b n how muvh love n care is shown.yes, i agree that something is terribly wrong on this planet.that is greed n ego to snatch away other#s right full belomgings.
Chandini La Ray: That´s what I am saying.. ask yourself why.. only someone who has not enough love does things like that.. be an example!
Yashanvitha Devavarenya: despite showering all the love n kindness, they want to do n b so bcos it is their inherited nature from their genes n they get tempted to b so, no matter what n how good others can b n how much love n care is shown.yes, i agree that something is terribly wrong on this planet.that is greed n ego to snatch away other's right full belomgings.
Chandini La Ray: The human being is divine by nature. Greed and ego is planted into its character by society. If we don´t like that we must change society.
Yashanvitha Devavarenya: can't blame on society for everything.society is made up of family of human beings.despite all the support n kindness from the society,they need the freewill n freedom to b evil n do evil.some r possessed by some evil forces, but some others r possessed by themselves.thats why they can't b divine without shifting their focus from serving themselves to serving divine supreme first.unless they take up the reponsibility n have accountability for their own karmic stuffs, they can't b divine.divinity is not just one virtue, it is the all in one dynamic combination n application of most of the virtues demanding confession,repention,honesty,truth,sincerity, loyalty, faith,humbleness.dedication.
Chandini La Ray: Society is YOU and ME and everybody. We all need to start with ourselves, but society is what tells people what to do or not to do by man-made laws.. But in the end, only the divine laws count. The human being itself is a divine creation. And the freewill has not been given to people so that everybody can do what he/she wants!
Yashanvitha Devavarenya: at some places,free will has not been given bcos most of the ppl r evil too in the society where i n you belong to.we might have worked out on ourselves, but others we can't expect them to do the same.they need their free will to b evil n do evil.society n culture of the society is different from the tribes to tribes n locations to locations.if u say humans r divine, then man made laws must b divine too.at some places, they r made to exploit n some places they r made to guard, n some places they r made to tame the souls after certain events or stages.men also bcom widow, woman who marries a widow man is not regarded as giving life to a widow man!!!
Chandini La Ray: humans are divine at the core, not in their behavio if they are not fully realized.
Yashanvitha Devavarenya: At the core, every atom is divine, but they r made up into souls with the combination of thriguna essences, sathvik, rajas, thamasic.so it is called as 'samskaara' earned from one birth to another through their sanchitha n prarabda karma n fruits of the karma or actions.
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